?????‍????‍??‍??‍? While Male bodied wounding most often craves (feels safest) to be mothered, most female-bodied wounding most often craves to be FATHERED. We generally desire to embody what we perceive to be lacking. Fear and Desire both arise out of […]

?????????????? There are lots of amazing awakened beings out there. But many don’t know how to teach. To communicate effectively. They say beautiful and very true statements, but the vibration is placed so far out of reach that it triggers […]

???????????????? People speak about Triggers as if they are problems. This is exactly the backward perspective in our culture. This perspective is based on shame. “This person is never triggered, so they’re cool. This person is triggered all the time, […]

?????????????? We’ve been taught some real ? about addiction. It’s not as black and white (or brown) as it’s been presented. Every unconscious addiction is based on unprocessed grief, which is also a lack of connection. There are also conscious addictions, which […]

ANGER: THE DAM AND THE DOORWAY ????????????? Today we will be seeing the energy of Anger through a new lens. Anger is our “calling for backup”, bringing extra resources to empower us for a situation. Anger is a necessary (and […]

If I look at a pitcher throwing a baseball and seeing it hit by a batter…I could say the ball is the feminine and it is “submitting” to the thrust of the bat, which is masculine. Makes perfect sense and most readers will agree. However, some readers will also pick up on the fact that the bat is being driven by a person. So, now there is a spectrum of masculinity in this analysis. The bat is both giving and receiving. And in macro view, it’s doing neither (its molecules are basically stationary).

It can be easy to anthropomorphize the bat and the ball to imagine they desire to impact one another…simply because doing so offers results.

If someone has more heart to break, there’s more personal power wanting to come in.